Telehealth Therapy for women in Maryland

Trauma-Informed, Attachment-Based Counseling

You’ve spent your life taking care of everyone else. Now it’s time to take care of yourself.

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Headshot of therapist, Julianna Gill for Chandelle Counseling and Wellness.

I help adult women heal from childhood emotional wounds and attachment patterns so they can understand their people-pleasing tendencies and start trusting themselves.

You’re holding a lot and carrying it alone

You may be the one everyone relies on—the responsible, thoughtful, “put-together” one, but inside, you often feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or disconnected from your own needs. Maybe you’re holding a lot inside, thoughts, emotions, memories, or patterns you’ve never fully had space to talk about. On the outside, it looks like you’re managing everything, but internally, things can feel heavy, anxious, or unclear. Small moments can feel bigger than they should, and you might find yourself reacting in ways you don’t fully understand.

Many of my clients grew up in environments where their emotional needs weren’t fully met—where support was inconsistent or where they learned to prioritize others to keep the peace. Over time, these experiences can lead to patterns like over-responsibility, self-doubt, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries.

When so much goes unspoken, it doesn’t just disappear. It shows up in your day-to-day life, in your relationships, in your stress levels, and in how you feel about yourself. Therapy offers a space to gently unpack what you’ve been carrying, make sense of your emotional patterns, and reconnect with your needs.

Together, we’ll explore how your early experiences shaped these patterns and begin creating more grounded, secure, and confident ways of relating to yourself and others. This work is about understanding—and creating lasting, meaningful change in how you show up in your life.

Secure, confidential telehealth therapy. Meet from a space that feels safe and comfortable to you.